Author: Ja(y)Den D. HarPer

  • The author reflects on the signs of needing a break, such as struggling with tasks and losing enjoyment in activities. They often ignore these signals until burnout occurs. To cope, they trick themselves into small moments of rest, recognizing that these brief breaks can help restore their sense of clarity and well-being.

  • New Release Incoming: Kingslayer: The Veiled Guardian

    In a war-torn world, six strangers awaken with powers and memories linked to the enigmatic Kingslayer, a feared figure thought to be dead. As they seek the truth, they uncover a complex reality where the villain might be the only trustworthy entity. This fantasy explores moral ambiguity and interwoven destinies.

  • Having It All

    The concept of “having it all” is often perceived as a final destination, yet it should focus on making intentional choices about what truly matters. Instead of chasing everything, simplifying life can lead to a sense of fulfillment. Ultimately, it’s about creating a life that feels sufficient, rather than trying to have it all at…

  • The Things I Kept When I Thought I Had Nothing

    The author reflects on sentimental, irreplaceable items: an old screwdriver, a circuit board from an initial project, a well-used sketch, and glasses from late-night study sessions. Despite their simplicity and replaceability, these belongings symbolize personal growth, resilience, and the journey of building confidence and skills. They represent significant beginnings.

  • Built for the Cold

    The author expresses a deep appreciation for cold weather, highlighting its ability to promote stillness and introspection. They cherish the comforting layers of clothing and the invigorating effect of cold air. In contrast to the restlessness of summer, winter’s chill fosters a peaceful, reflective state of mind.

  • A Museum of Meaning

    The author reflects on their unique collection, which consists not of physical items but of impactful moments. These include meaningful conversations, songs, and life’s beautiful surprises. Their collection, though intangible and scattered, represents a personal museum filled with significant experiences that resonate with them emotionally.

  • The Hoodie That Outlived My Phases

    The author reflects on wearing a beloved hoodie that has accompanied them through significant life changes. Despite its physical wear and lack of style, it symbolizes emotional and personal experiences, serving as a witness to various moments, including writing deadlines and personal struggles. The hoodie embodies comfort and connection.

  • ✨ It’s here.Living Loud: A Real Guide to Focus (For Minds That Wander on Purpose) is officially out.

    This book explores the themes of attention and memory, focusing on the experiences of those who struggle to maintain focus due to fatigue, trauma, or a different way of thinking. It reflects on the tools that can help or hinder our journey and emphasizes the importance of simply showing up, even when it feels challenging.…

  • The most honest performances are the ones that never sell tickets.

    The last live performance described was by a street musician at a train station, who played with raw honesty despite lacking a formal stage or audience. The experience highlighted how transformative and genuine such unsanctioned performances can be, often having a greater impact than traditional concerts that sell tickets.

  • Focus Isn’t a Switch — It’s a Fight (New Book Announcement)

    Living Loud: A Real Guide to Focus is a new book aimed at individuals who struggle with maintaining focus amidst their chaotic thoughts. Unlike typical self-help books promoting rigid routines, this guide acknowledges the challenges of burnout and emotional turmoil. It emphasizes understanding, reframing, and embracing one’s unique relationship with focus rather than striving for…